Tuesday, December 11, 2007
have u ever....
Have you ever wondered why relationships failed on you? I guess the basic elements that are needed are not there to keep the fire going and thus... FAILED.
What I meant about basic elements are trust, care, concern, understanding, mutual respect and etc. that you can think of but“taking things/ your partner for granted” is definitely not in the menu. But I can boldly say I’m a die hard fan of it. =D
I do realize wad i am doing and has done and aftermath damages but... I still do it. unintentionaly! I really wonder why I did that and later bear grudges to myself. I have suchca wonderful bf and as I’ve mentioned he’s an extinct gem to me. He take things up from me whatever and whenever. I’m really grateful to GOD that he is such homogeneous and ever patient man, to me. I’m ever grateful and thankful for his everything.
Couples can fall out any minute, telling each other how hateful and how much they have tolerated, argued, quarrels. I guess this is just a moment of truth and how “volcano” erupts!!! Perhaps communication is the key to open doors. I guessed if communication were on the right track and feelings were made known to each other, I guess the relationship will be on a smoother sailing side. *Take note I used the word smoother and not smooth.* which means to say, there will be rocky times too. And if you have braved thru rocks with your partners I’m sure the r/s are bound to be stronger. And the thing I wan to note is never assume things, it making an ASS of U and ME. Assumption is really a killer mindset to do and be done, could cause serious damage n regrets from my past experiences. Heh.
Seen saw and heard how much 1 side can love the other, saying this like “LOVE YOU FOREVER” and “I will make you my spouse!” in a definite and confident manner PUBLICLY. Being a sadist after a breakup and people around you starts to get paranoid and worry for you, take up time consoling you and even accompany you for chats. Days later you happily got hitch AGAIN and get into a new chapter of deceiving and lies. Living in your own fairy tale’s world. Thinking that “ah ha! I’ve found my spouse I’m gonna love you forever!!!” *rolls eyes*
These actions really irk me off. And make me think twice what kind of person are you and how are you going to gain trust from people around you again. I think it’s hard but, it’s possible for a long run thou. =)
I don’t know why this kind of thought suddenly run through my mind. But I think that is something good for me as I would have a better insight on what are the some pros and cons. And I meant some. I guess it’s a never ending learning journey for us as humans! =D
I hereby wish all everyone who is in an r/s to treasure and to be grateful to what you have now. Treasure before it’s too late!!!!
always count your blessing before you start to complain. =)
Nuff said, for now I’m seriously blessed and contented with what I have now. My beloved dearest, =D I hope he do share same sentiments. And I will try to lessen the cons and give you more of the pros ok! Teehee. =P
Once again, I love you LARLING~~
(ps* above is just my thoughts and thinking. its only for reading and not own referance. no humans were hurt in midst of writting this post!!! *cheerios*)
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